To Do List

My mother went about her daily chores of cooking, housecleaning, feeding the chickens, gathering eggs, vegetable gardening, and sewing during the day. In leisure evenings after her chores were finished, she crocheted and read her Bible—her favorite pastimes. She created meals without a cookbook or printed recipes. She crocheted intricate patterns and made rag rugs by looking at a project completed by others. The one thing never seen in her hand was a To-Do list.

My father carried a notebook in his work shirt pocket and a stub pencil in the special slot next to it. He made lists and documented his work tasks and accomplishments. Everything from earnings as a gardener and weighing his filled cotton sack at the hanging scales. He listed everything from paid utility bills to grocery shopping. Nothing escaped that tiny notebook. While Mama crocheted in the evenings and listened to the Chuck Wagon Gang or the Carter Family singing gospel tunes, he sat at the kitchen table and transferred information from his pocket notebook into a sturdy ledger. He moistened the tip of his indelible pencil and wrote everything in purple ink. Then he joined Mama in the living room in time to hear a preacher broadcasting from the comfort of Rosarita Beach in Baja California who always ended with a plea for money to keep him on the air.

In my early working days, I made project lists with deadlines and dates accomplished. Then office computerization made that chore easier. At home, I continued making grocery lists but opted for adding events to my personal computer Outlook calendar. Years later I stopped making lists except for grocery shopping, relying on my memory.

In December, I returned to a daily handwritten To-Do List to practice for the New Year. I’ve accomplished more in the first three days of 2018 than I could have imagined. I still keep events, medical appointments, and other important information on my computer. This year, I’ve added a pocket calendar and softcover ledger to my purse. My father would be proud of my efforts, but no doubt he would be puzzled when I shred my printed receipts for groceries and other routine purchases and trust online sources to record the dates and amounts instead of writing them in my journal. He might question blog, an unknown word in his lifetime.

If I complain that my novel writing hasn’t improved with the To-Do book, I can imagine him saying, “Girl, it is not on your list.”



Filed under Memoir, Writing

10 responses to “To Do List

  1. I have 3 calendars, 2 lists, and scraps of notes to self – and still things slip through the cracks. You are doing just fine!

  2. Rhonda Woda

    I don’t love list, but I do love checking them off! Put on your list to Visit Your Niece in Texas!

  3. Hello. Trust you are doing well. Sending love and blessings.

  4. I read an article recently that handwritten lists are easier to remember, i.e.there is less need to check them. I’ll often get to the grocery store and realize I’ve left my list on the table, but having written them down i inevitabley remember my needs.
    One thing I don’t like about computer calenders is committee chairs putting things on them and forgetting to remove me once I’ve moved on.

  5. I enjoyed your trip down memory lane. My dad was a list-maker too. I love making lists, but like you I keep most things on Outlook now simply for convenience. Too much time sitting in front of a screen, and not enough walking around, stopping to jot.

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